Secrets of Sexual Life with Psychologist Arzu Arslanoğlu

Famous psychologist Arzu Arslanoğlu gave an extremely important and informative speech about the secrets of sexual life. Arslanoğlu emphasised that communication and understanding lie at the basis of sexual health and satisfaction.

Arslanoğlu said that one of the secrets of sexual life is that partners should be open to each other and express their expectations clearly. He stated that couples can have a healthier sexual relationship by discussing mutual wishes, limits and expectations.

Finally, psychologist Arzu Arslanoğlu emphasised the importance of couples to be open to new experiences by breaking routines to revitalise their sexual lives. Here are the lines from Arslanoğlu’s explanations;

💥WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT SEXUAL LIFE?

Women and Men Experience Sexuality Differently!

✨Women and men are very different from each other in all areas of life in terms of their physical structures and gender characteristics.
When partners do not know that their sexual desires and satisfaction are different from each other, in other words, when they look at sexuality only from their own windows, it is up to chance that they can be in sexual harmony and reach sexual satisfaction.

✨✨✨ MAN IS STIMULATED BY EROTICISM AND WOMAN BY ROMANCE!

The woman’s sexual desire is triggered by emotional and mental stimuli, while the man’s sexual desire is triggered by visual and mental stimuli. In other words, a man can be stimulated by visual elements with sexual connotations, often even just by thinking about sexuality. However, direct erotic physical arousal is not sufficient for sexual desire in women; it also needs a romantic intimacy or emotional bond with its partner.

✨✨✨ MAN WARMS UP FAST AND COOLS DOWN FAST, WOMAN WARMS UP LATE AND COOLS DOWN LATE!

Sexual desire in men and women occurs in different ways. The indicator of arousal and readiness for penis-vagina union is different in men and women.

✨✨✨ MAN REACHES SEXUAL SATISFACTION EASILY, WOMAN MORE DIFFICULT!

The woman’s sexual satisfaction is a more complex and longer process than the man’s sexual satisfaction. For women, it is important to be emotionally and sexually satisfied at the same time, not sexual performance.

✨✨✨ MAN LOOKS AT SPEED AND RESULT, WOMAN LOOKS AT THE PROCESS!

The man wants to bring his fast, intense and irresistible sexual desire to immediate gratification, that is, to ejaculate and leave the woman’s body immediately after ejaculation. The woman, whose sexual desire is slow and timid, desires the man to stay in her longer in order to experience pleasure long and digestively.

✨✨✨✨ THERE IS NO PERFORMANCE ANXIETY IN THE MAN IN THE WOMAN!!!
Because of the perception of sexuality as a proof of masculinity, sexual intercourse is like a kind of test for men. He experiences the fear of not succeeding in the sexual act, with the anxiety of not being successful in the sexual act, incomplete penis hardening or premature ejaculation. For women, however, there is no need to prove anything in sexual intercourse.